708176196694798 When Mom or Dad Has Cancer: The Magic of Kesem - Man Up to Cancer

Episode 90

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16th Jun 2026

When Mom or Dad Has Cancer: The Magic of Kesem

One of the coolest things about this job as podcast host is that I get to shine the light on other non-profits in the cancer space and the incredible work being done by their leaders and volunteers.

Today, the spotlight is on Kesem.

Founded in 2000, Kesem is a leading national nonprofit supporting children facing a parent’s cancer, providing year-round programs and services for children ages 6-18 at no cost to families.

Their flagship program, Camp Kesem, provides free, week-long summer camp experiences for children whose parents are facing, have survived, or have died from cancer. Camps are led by trained college student volunteers.

Our youngest daughter, Elsie, attended camp in 2023. She was an older camper at age 15, but the experience had a profound impact on her. Her camp name was Ivy by the way - from a Taylor Swift song.

It's an honor to welcome Kesem's CEO Jay Stilwell, and someone who attended camp and went on to be a college camp counselor, Kuu Sanford. Check out their mini-bios and social channels below.

Jay “Country Ham” Stilwell

Jay Stilwell is CEO of Kesem, where he brings the perspective of a Kesem parent, former Board Chair, and longtime mission champion. After losing his wife to cancer, Jay found Kesem through his daughter’s camp experience and now leads the organization’s efforts to support children impacted by a parent’s cancer.

Kuuleilani “KitKat” Sanford

Kuu Sanford attended the very first Camp Kesem at age 7 as a child impacted by a parent’s cancer and later returned as a counselor. Now an entrepreneur and founder, Kuu credits Kesem with shaping her confidence, resilience, friendships, and lifelong commitment to supporting others.

Kesem social channels

Instagram: www.instagram.com/kesem/

Facebook: www.facebook.com/campkesem

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/kesemnationwide

Kuu Sanford social channels

Instagram: www.instagram.com/kuubabyy

LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/kuusanford/

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I'm your host, Trevor Maxwell. I'm a stage IV colon cancer survivor, and I've got a message for other men: You don't have to go through cancer alone.

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Trevor Maxwell is a stage IV colon cancer survivor from Cape Elizabeth, Maine. He is the founder of Man Up to Cancer, a national nonprofit organization that inspires men to connect and avoid isolation during their cancer journeys, and he is the author of the book Open Heart, Warrior Spirit: A Man’s Guide to Living with Cancer.